Fatal Femmes Presents: FreeDomLand : Lupercalia

Lupercalia! An ancient rite of purging, fertility and health- often observed on the 15th February in Ancient Rome!

As a Valentines event we wanted to invoke an event of rituals, rites, candles, and binding.Mactire is along to help you slip into some deep spaces with vac pacs, sleeping sacks and a big vac pack cube in the downstairs dungeon. Upstairs we will be focussing on impact play, wax, rope, seduction and power dynamics. 

FreeDomLand is our open invite party, and you do not need to be vetted to attend this event. 

Special Guest: Mactire

Vac Beds x2

Sleeping Sack

Vac Pack Cube

Upstairs Dungeon:

Spanking bench

St Andrews Cross

Massage Tables

Cuddle Puddle

& more

The Little Black Book:

Have a scene you'd like to do? Ruby Dagger will try match you to somone who can help those fantasies come alive. You can approach her at the event, and she will make a little coded note in her black book, or you can message her on Fetlife to discuss your ideas. Consider her your fairy goth mother!

Photo Booth:

For capturing all your costumes and smiles. Images are sometimes used for marketing purposes, and we allow guests to stipulate if they want images shared if not, and where.

Food & Drink:

Fully licenced bar, and some small party snacks. (Do eat before you come though, don't rely on us for a full meal!)

Smoking Area:

The smoking area is on the second floor and is part covered.

HOUSE RULES:

Be Kind - Ask Consent - Practice SSC/RACK - No Drugs - No Sharps- No Mess - No Genital Nudity

Wax play is allowed, but please be tidy and use a bin for wax scrapings. Please wipe down any furniture or house equiptment you use- it's just good etiquette!

We try to run the safest event we can- if you see anyone breaking house rules then please report to our staff immediately. Dungeon monitors wear an orange arm band, or speak to hosts Evie or Ruby.

COVID RULES:

We are asking all attendees to take a LFT test, and to bring proof of their results to our event (either the test in a plastic seal bag that comes with the tests, or as a photo time stamped to the day.) Some of our staff are immunocompromised, and cases are now rising again due to winter so we feel this is the safest thing to do for now.

If you cannot access a test, one will be provided for you but this will delay your entry.

DRESS CODE:

We welcome everyone to come as their authentic self at this event and to make an effort as we love some extravaganza!

Our theme for this event is Lupercalia- so anything that invokes images of amour and Lupercal- cupids, dieties, wolves, reds, velvets, pinks.  Latex, leather, lingerie are great options too. Although we don't enforce our dress code we think that a little effort goes a long way.

LOCATION & TRAVEL:

The Loft is a 5 minute walk from Norwich train station, and close to bus stops nearby. If needed, there is pay and display parking at Norwich train station and also at Rose Lane Car Park.

ACCESS:

Unfortunately this building is not wheelchair accessible and there are multiple floors to the space. We do run a smaller FDL event every other month at The Castle, which is a far more accessible space.

We never have flashing or strobing lights at our events, and we provide seating at various heights. If you speak to staff a safe quiet space can be provided for you. Staff are first aid trained, and mental wellbeing trained.

OTHER STUFF:

Our toilets are gender neutral and our stance is that BDSM & the LGBTQIA communities are there to love and support each other.

We have a few items in our lost and found- if you think you may have lost anything please ask @fatalfemmes on fetlife, or find Evie Abundance or Ruby Dagger on the day.